Ashenfelter & Associates

Ashenfelter & Associates is a Dallas, TX counseling practice born out of a desire to offer help and hope to teens, adults, couples and families as they navigate through life’s many challenges. Call today to schedule your free 20 minute consultation at 214-563-8980.  We look forward to having the opportunity to walk with you as you reach restoration.  You can also find us on Facebook and Twitter.

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Stages of Therapy

What Therapy Stage Are You In

Everything in life is a process the same is true for therapy.  Here are some common stages of therapy that many of our clients experience during the course of their time with us.

SURVIVAL:
Virtually all counseling clients start at this level. You are in crisis, at a low point, depressed or anxious. My focus here is an immediate and practical prescription for helping you regain hope and basic functioning. This most often includes health issues such as exercise and rest, as well as releasing pain out of the body by relaxation and journaling.

RECOVERY:
At this stage you move on to the relationships around you as a focus for change. You are ready to see how you help create the painful patterns in your own life, and you go out into the world as a scientist, observing your patterns with others. You begin to see how you contribute to your own problems by the thinking habits you’ve formed.

PROGRESS:
Too many clients leave therapy at this stage. The pain is eased—why go deeper? The problem with stopping here is that the fundamental issues and reactions have not been changed yet. It’s like stopping an antibiotic on the second day because you feel better—the basic “infection” has not been eradicated, and will resurface in time.

PLEASURE:
A client who “stays the course” to this stage begins to reap the deeply satisfying rewards of enjoyment and contentment in life. Persistent body aches, migraines, rashes and recurring illnesses often ease or disappear entirely as the client ceases to be at war within and therefore has the energy to heal.

AWARENESS:
Once the bothersome thinking patterns are uncovered and corrected, the client has found peace in their personal boundaries and dealings with others. The “coaching” side of my work now begins. I help the client explore what they want their legacy to be in life, how to live with integrity regardless of circumstance, and dream for the future by exploring goals.

Don’t let fear about the process get in the way of your progress.  Every person is unique and will move through therapy at the pace that works for them.  We are here to walk with you, you are not alone.

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